Diagnostic Criteria For Avoidant Personality Disorder from the DSM-IV:
A pervasive pattern of social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and
hypersensitivity to negative evaluation, beginning by early adulthood and present
in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact,
because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection.
is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked.
shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being
shamed or ridiculed.
is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations.
is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy.
views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others.
is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities
because they may prove embarrassing.